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Is Islam Really Stuck in the 12th Century on Women's Rights?

Sabtu, 24 Mei 2008 | Labels: , , | 0 comments |

By Joshua Holland, AlterNet.

Apparently, they're a couple of decades behind the "liberal" West, and not so stuck after all. Before 9/11/01, the media relegated stories about women in Islamic societies to page B27, below the fold. Ever since 9/12/01, those same stories have screamed from the front pages in 100-point type. The shift in discourse coincided with the launch of Bush's global "War on Terror," when various hawks began using the plight of women in Islam to illustrate the supposed perfidy of our "enemies," and to justify a series of military "interventions" -- invasions -- by Western powers.

In the United States, there's now an almost universally held belief that most women in Islamic societies face wretched persecution and that Islam itself is wholly to blame. But there's scant empirical evidence to support the claim -- mostly, we're treated to detailed reports of horrific abuses in theocratic states like Saudi Arabia and Iran, despite the fact that just six percent of the Muslim world live in those two countries. If you ask average Americans how they came to their beliefs about how badly women suffer in Islamic societies, most will reply that "everyone knows it."
But I've seen no empirical data to suggest that an Islamic majority itself correlates with the subordination of women better than other co-variables like economic development, women's ability to serve in government, a political culture that values the rule of law or access to higher education. In other words, you can use a comparison of women's status in Saudi Arabia and Sweden to make an intellectually weak argument for Western superiority, but there's little support for the notion that women living in "traditional" Islamic cultures enjoy a lower social status than those in orthodox Christian, Jewish or Hindu communities, to name a few examples. Think of the perfectly backwards Eastern Orthodox Church, the largest Christian communion in the world. Or consider the country where women may be brutalized more terribly than in any other, the Democratic Republic of Congo, which is 70 percent Christian and 10 percent Muslim. Or go to Utah, where tens of thousands of Mormon fundamentalists believe that women are literally the property of their fathers or husbands. Of course, Mormon fundamentalists are the exception that proves the endless benevolence and equality of the West, while whatever despicable caricature of justice perpetrated on a woman by the House of Saud is breathlessly recounted as emblematic of Islamic culture as a whole.
Comparing the “Muslim world” to the rest of the world poses an intellectual problem — how does one even look at the role of Islam in a society, specifically, rather than dozens of other variables that might influence women's outcomes?
I'd expect, for example, the structure of a country's economy to play a far greater role in determining women's status than the religion of its people. There's quite a bit of research showing that in service and manufacturing economies -- those of wealthier states -- women enjoy a great deal of personal freedom and autonomy, civil and political rights and access to higher education. That's because of the high value of their labor outside the home, in the workforce. Women earning their own bread out in the working world demand, and require, full political rights and legal protections. In poorer economies, most of which have large agricultural sectors and many of which rely on extractive enterprises -- oil, mining, etc. -- women tend to suffer a much lower social status, because their labor is more valuable coerced and sequestered close to home. That's a structural, rather than a "Clash of Civilizations" explanation of women's varying outcomes in different countries. It's the latter view that I find little evidence to support.
None of this is a defense of Islam, or women's place within it -- I have little love for religion, any religion, and certainly no desire to defend any religious rites or customs. It's about our loose definitions of the problem and tendency to idealize the "liberal" West.

God Word

Minggu, 27 April 2008 | Labels: | 1 comments |

O ye who believe, let no people ridicule another people, it is possible, they may be better than them; nor let one group of women ridicule another, it is possible, the last may be better than the first (Chapter 49: Verse 12)

He created you from a single soul then from that He made its mate.(Chapter 39: Verse 7)

Your creation and your resurrection are only like the creation and resurrection of a single soul. (Chapter 31: Verse 29)

O ye people! Fear your Lord, Who created you from a single soul and created from the same its mate, and through them both He caused to spread a large number of men and women; and be mindful of your duty to Allah in Whose name you appeal to one another, and fear Him particularly in the sphere of ties of relationships. Indeed, Allah watches over you (Chapter 4: Verse 2)

To Be Good to Parents

Kamis, 20 Maret 2008 | Labels: | 0 comments |

And We have enjoined on man to be good to his parents. His mother bears him with pain, and brings him forth with pain, and the bearing of him and his weaning takes thirty months till, when he attains his full maturity and reaches the age of forty years, he says, 'My Lord, grant me that I may be grateful for Thy favour which thou hast bestowed upon me and upon my parents, and I may do such righteous deeds as may please Thee. And establish righteousness among my progeny for me. I do turn to thee; and, truly, I am of those who are obedient to thee.(Qur'an Chapter 46:Verse 16)

Teacheable=Success?

Rabu, 27 Februari 2008 | Labels: , , , | 0 comments |

Guy! what do you think about success? Perhaps you already know to the words that if you want to success in every aspect of your life that’s mean you need to be teachable. Teachable means; to be ready and willing to learn under the guidance of others. One aspect of being teachable is to have the prerequisite skills necessary to be successful in the teaching or learning process.
Related aspect is to have the attitude or willingness to place oneself under the guidance of an instructor.

Just a Story...

Sabtu, 09 Februari 2008 | Labels: | 0 comments |

This was a story about a king and his adviser. One day they were going for hunting to a jungle. They search for animal target but they found nothing and more of that the king got an accident; his finger was cut by his sword the time he cut trees around him with angry because he didn’t find the animal. After his hurt cured, the king still feel painfulness and asked to his adviser what must to do now to eliminate his painful? The adviser replied that the king couldn’t do anything except thanks to God, because whatever happened to our life there must be a blessing. Hearing the answer the king was unhappy and anger; ‘Are you crazy, man? Your king in painfulness must say grateful for that?” and in his anger the king ordered to his body guards to sent the adviser to jail, and after that soon the king promote a new adviser.

Three years after, in a jungle when the king was hunting, a primitive ethnic was arrested the king and his adviser, then the primitive make the king and the adviser as sacrifice in their ritual. Fortunately the time primitive people check his body they found one of the fingers of the king was flawed and they was think that couldn’t be as a sacrifice. Then primitive people released the king only the adviser was killed for the sacrifice.

As soon as he reached the palace, the king commanded to release the adviser from the jail and bring to face him. The king asked for apologize because was sent the adviser to jail for the advise was proven of correctness, and the king said if he understood to what the adviser was saying that whatever happened to our life there must be a blessing “You can imagine if my finger was not cut, so this day I was killed along with my adviser for sacrifice by the primitive people. Start from now your position as my adviser is back”.
The adviser said “you need no ask me apologize my Lord, I am very grateful to you was sending me to a jail for three years because if you didn’t, that’s mean the man who was killed as a sacrifice it’s me!”

Smaller World

Rabu, 06 Februari 2008 | Labels: , | 0 comments |

Due to the vast development of various forms of communication some of people felt the world was ‘becoming a smaller place’ but as the world became smaller in this sense, the spirit of love between mankind ought to increase and that a sense of understanding and tolerance ought to be fostered.

It is evident that in today’s society there is a great deal of mistrust regarding the beliefs of others and indeed religion itself has become tarnished in the eyes of many due to the militant acts of certain misguided individuals and also due to bias prevalent in many media organisations.

In society at all levels there are leaders. There are political leaders, religious leaders, professional leaders and so many other types. However what each one should remember is the responsibility they hold as others will naturally follow in their footsteps. For the peace and well being of society it is imperative that good natured people come to the fore so that others naturally follow in their wake.

There is certainly difference in belief between the various religions. However, it should always be remembered that we are all human beings and therefore a sense of tolerance and love should be spread across all peoples no matter their religion. If this principle is obeyed, then and only then, will we see the emergence of a truly peaceful society.

Peace and Security on Global Level

Selasa, 22 Januari 2008 | Labels: , , , | 0 comments |

This a nice topic from Friday Sermon that the Holy Qur’an addresses all nations of the world on the basis of humanity:

"O mankind We have created you from male and female; and We have made you into clans and tribes that you may recognise one another. Verily, the most honourable among you, in the sight of Allah, is he who is the most righteous among you. Surely, Allah is All Knowing, All-Aware.” (49:14)

This is the Islamic teaching of brotherhood. A righteous believer is enjoined to adhere to this teaching and indeed to propagate it. This alone can foster love, affection and equality. Peace and security can only be guaranteed in the world when the false and oppressive notion of supremacy for some nations is eradicated.

Peace and security cannot be established until people of each race and each nation are able to ascertain that they are the children of Adam and are created by a male and female and are indeed equal. If one is better than the other, it is in terms of righteousness alone. However, whose righteousness is most excellent, only Allah knows, no one can adjudge this for themselves.

Islam says that all mankind is like a family and it can only look after the peace and security of each other only if it lives like a close-knit family. The apparent differences in mankind are only for identification as to who is European who is Asian and who is African. As humans we are all the same and a person in Africa has the same sentiments as those of a person in Europe. Peace and security can only prevail when each others’ sentiments are cared for. These are the measures for durable peace and security that Islam presents, otherwise no matter how many Security Councils are formed durable peace cannot be maintained.

This teaching did not just remain theoretical; the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be on him) put it all in practice. He loved the poor and the disadvantaged, freed the slaves, assigned the deprived their rights. At his farewell sermon, the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be on him) openly declared, “All of you are equal. All men, whatever nation or tribe they belong to, and whatever station in life they may hold, are equal…….an Arab possesses no superiority over the non-Arab, nor does a non-Arab over an Arab.”

Our Heart

Jumat, 18 Januari 2008 | Labels: , , | 0 comments |

The human heart is the seat of all human emotions. A heart that is full of evil emotions and thoughts is but a favourite place for Satan. Those hearts that are disbelieving, doubtful and mischief-mongering are, according to the Quran, hearts that have been sealed. God Almighty says in His book: `thus do we seal the hearts of transgressors' (10:75) and: `I will cause terror into the hearts of those who disbelieve' (8:12) The Quran makes many such references to the human heart. The Book of Allah proclaims numerous merits of a sound heart, a contended heart full of unbounded love and deep understanding of God and mankind, His creation. For instance the perfect Book of Allah proclaims: `Lo, it is in the remembrance of Allah that hearts can find comfort' (13:28) And Allah admonishes all Muslims that: `He united your hearts in love' (3:104) and that He: `put your hearts at rest' (3:127)

Scientific research has conclusively proved that there is a vital link between the state of one's thinking and one's physical well-being. A healthy heart will undoubtedly keep a mind healthy and vice versa. A person's character is built on his thoughts, in other words, we are what we think. Allah our merciful Lord through His benevolence has given us the choice and power to govern our thoughts and thereby build a character that is worthy of praise. An immoral character grows from the seeds of immoral thoughts while a virtuous character grows from the seeds of virtuous thoughts. As mentioned earlier, the heart is where all kinds of good or bad thoughts are born. Therefore, it is imperative to cultivate a pure and clean heart. A recent article in the famous American magazine Psychology Today dated February 1989illustrates the relationship between the heart and the soul in the following words:

Scientific medicine has made extraordinary progress against heart disease, by denying one of mankind's most romantic notions - that our emotions centre in the heart. By treating the heart as an unfeeling pump, surgeons have been able to create pacemakers and work their way up to the ultimate in high-tech medicine - the artificial heart. Even as Barney Clark and other courageous patients were using psychology and hard data to discover that trouble in the heart may come in part from sickness of the soul. Spiritual need may be the underlying crisis among people prone to heart attacks. Harvard cardiologist, Herbert Benson agrees. Dr. Benson has shown how using a repetitive prayer produces sharp reductions in heart beat and blood pressure. At the University of Maryland, psychologist, James Lynch continues to explore the psychological side of high blood pressure. Blood pressure goes up when we talk and down we listen to another person.

Different states of heart:The following quotation from the Bible creates a striking resemblance between one's mind and heart: `As a man thinketh in his heart, so he is' (Proverbs 23:7). We know there are various states of mind and likewise there are different states of heart. According to the Oxford Dictionary the heart is the seat of all emotions, soul, mind, courage, etc. When one is thankful to a person, one thanks him from the bottom of one's heart and when one is stricken with grief, it is heart-rending. If a person is courageous, we call him lion-hearted and to describe sincerity we say it is heart-felt. An unexpected piece of news or an event can break one's heart and to understand the essence of matter, is to get to the heart of the matter. When you like a person deeply beyond description, you say he is a man after my heart. Lest we forget to mention the change of heart, it is one of the rare human traits that has not been bestowed to any other creature. Some people have a change of heart too often and others have a heart made of rock.

A sincere Muslim is one who examines his heart from time to time to see if this feelings towards others are tender, his motives are honest, he is loving towards others and his heart is in constant search for truth and love of God. Such a heart is an epitome of love, kindness, courage, affection, honesty, truth, sincerity and humility. Hadhrat Jesus, son of Mary, (peace be upon him), is reported to have said: `Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul and with all thy mind.
The Prophet of Islam (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), has also described the importance of a pure and sincere heart. According to the most reliable book of Hadith, al-Bukhari, he told one of his companions: `In the body there is a piece of flesh, when it is healthy, the whole body is healthy, and when it becomes unhealthy, the whole body gets unhealthy, and lo that piece is the heart. This succinct quotation illustrates that a human heart is the fountain-head of all our emotions. If one's heart entertains pure thoughts then all of one's deeds will be upon the road to virtue, but if one's heart if full of vicious thoughts and ideas, then one is bound to follow the path of vice.

Thoughts and ideas are born in a heart like seeds in a garden that soon sprout into full grown plants. Purity of heart stimulates the growth of the tree of virtue. The crux of the matter is that if one's heart is in good shape, then one's hands, feet, tongue, mind and eyes will be in good shape as well. In our day-to-day contact with others, one should always remember the following formula: to handle yourself, use your head, to handle others use your heart.

A beating heart:How many times does a heart have to beat? At least 70 times every minute, for an average of 75 years. In round numbers, that turns out to be 100,000 times a day, or three billion times in a lifetime. Sometimes two hearts beat one, some are lonely, some half hearted and some are broken. Some are saddened, some are, like a bird, gladdened and some are worn upon your sleeve. Our daily conversation is full of wonderful references to our heart: `his heart was in his mouth', or his heart was not in it', or deep in the heart of Ontario, or 'heart of the matter. 'Heart' is used as a symbol of love. It is said that we subconsciously remember the beat of our mother's heart from when we were in the womb. Did you know that when zoo-keepers have an orphaned baby monkey, they help its chance of survival by keeping it attached to a bundle of blankets with a mechanism that produces the `thump-thump' of a mother's heart-beat?All praise belongs to Allah!

Thanks to brother Zakaria Virk

Avoid of Suspicions

Senin, 14 Januari 2008 | Labels: , | 0 comments |

O ye who believe! avoid most of suspicions; for suspicion in some cases is a sin. And spy not, nor backbite one another. Would any of you like to eat the flesh of his brother who is dead? Certainly you would loath it. And fear Allah, surely, Allah is Oft-Returning with compassion and is Merciful(Chapter 49:verse13)

O mankind, We have created you from a male and a female; and We have made you into tribes and sub-tribes that you may recognize one another. Verily, the most honorable among you, in the sight of Allah, is he who is the most righteous among you. Surely, Allah is All-Knowing, All-Aware (Chapter 49:verse14)

Manage Our Life

Kamis, 10 Januari 2008 | Labels: , , | 0 comments |

Difficulties always faced in our life but difficult not always has bad implication to our life. In some cases our difficulties exactly result a good implications. Some time our creativity happens the time we’re in a difficult situation and often some one become a stronger person and has wide perspectives after some difficulties faced in their life.

All the living creatures are put on the face of the earth provided with natural ways to adjust to life’s many difficulties. So if difficult situations happen to you keep your faith and defeat all your difficulty.

Indeed, sometimes we cannot manage our difficulties and we are frustrated because in the process of achieving our goals we have fail and cannot handle any obstacles were faced.
If these cases happen and you are stress what you have to do then? Wise man said; just think positively and look for any different activities that are enjoyable you most, do more exercises and of course consume some healthy food.

Budha and Yesus

Senin, 07 Januari 2008 | Labels: , | 0 comments |

This interesting topic with title Budha and Yesus wrote by Bashir Ahmad Orchard.
Buddha and Jesus were both holy prophets of God who appeared in their own times for the spiritual rejuvenation of the people to whom they were sent. Buddha appeared in India about six hundred years before Jesus. In both were found a purity of life, sanctity of character and patient endurance under fierce persecution. It appears that they were both very near in resemblance as suggested by the following analogies.1. Jesus was born of a virgin without carnal intercourse. (Matth. Chapter 1)Buddha was born of a virgin without carnal intercourse. (Hinduism by Williams, pp. 82 and 108)2. When Jesus was an infant in his cradle, he spoke to his mother and said: I am Jesus, the son of God. (Gospel of Infancy)When Buddha was an infant, just born, he spoke to his mother and said: I am the greatest among men. (Hardy's Manual of Buddhism, pp. 145-6)3. The life of Jesus was threatened by King Herod. (Matth. 2:1)The life of Buddha was threatened by King Bimbarasa. (History of Buddha by Beal pp. 103-104)4. When Jesus was a young boy we are told that the learned religious teachers were astonished at his understanding and answers. (Luke 2:47)When sent to school, the young Buddha surprised his masters. (Hardy's Manual of Buddhism)5. Jesus fasted for forty days and nights. (Matth. 4:2)Buddha fasted for a long period. (Science of Religion by Muller, p 28)6. It is believed that Jesus will return to this world. (Acts 1:11)It is believed that Buddha will return to this world. (Angel-Messiah by Bunsen, Ch. 14)7. Jesus said: Think not that I am come to destroy the law, or the prophets; I am not to destroy but to fulfill. (Matth. 5:17)Buddha came not to destroy the law but to fulfill it. (Science of Religion by Muller, p 140)8. Jesus taught: Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you. (Matth. 5:44)According to Buddha, the motive of all our actions should be pity, or love for our neighbour. (Science of Religion by Muller, p 249)9. It is recorded certain of the scribes and pharisees answered, saying, Master we would see a sign from thee. (Matth. 12:38)It is recorded in the Sacred Canon of the Buddhists that the multitude required a sign from Buddha that they might believe. (Science of Religion by Muller, p 27)10. It is written in the New Testament that Jesus said: If thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out, and caste it from thee. (Matth. 5:29)A story is related of a Buddhist ascetic whose eye offended him so he plucked it out and threw it away. (Science of Religion by Muller, p 245)The basic teachings of Buddha are very similar to those taught by Jesus most of which are contained in his Sermon on the Mount. (Matth. ch 5)The essence of Buddha's teachings are:Gautama Buddha taught that all men are brothers, that charity ought to be extended to all, even to enemies; that men ought to love truth and hate the lie; that good work ought not to be done openly; but rather in secret; that the dangers of riches are to be avoided; that man's highest aim ought to be purity in thought, word and deed, since the higher things are pure, whose nature is akin to that of man.(The Angel-Messiah by Benson)There are, indeed, also points of resemblance in the history of Buddha and Jesus. It has been declared that history of Jesus, as portrayed in the New Testament, is a copy of the history of Buddha:The most ancient of the Buddhistic records known to us contain statements about the life and the doctrines of Gautama Buddha which correspond in a resemblance manner, and impossibly by mere chance, with the traditions recorded in the Gospels about the life and teachings of Jesus.(The Angel-Messiah by Benson, p 50)The view has been advanced that the similarities found in the lives and teachings of Gautama Buddha and Jesus could not happen by chance and that as Buddha is the older than Christianity then the former is the parent of the latter. This, of course, is speculation as there are many teachings and points similar and common to all religions.